For Subscribers

'Why I Had to Fire My Co-founder, CEO and Close Friend' Rumpl CEO Wylie Robinson looks back on one of the toughest conversations of his life -- and what you can learn from it.

By Wylie Robinson

This story appears in the November 2018 issue of BIZ Experiences. Subscribe »

Courtesy of Rumpl

At 3 am on June 13, 2016, I sat wide awake in bed. The most difficult conversation of my life was scheduled for 9 a.m., when I'd fire my co-founder, CEO and close friend from the company we had built together, Rumpl.

Related: How These 6 BIZ Experiencess Dealt With Difficult Employee Issues

We started the business in January 2014, after we came up with the idea to make cozy blankets that felt like sleeping bags -- more comfortable, more durable, less annoying than duvets. We enjoyed quick success, raising nearly a quarter-­million dollars via Kickstarter. Our product received praise from our earliest customers, which resulted in partnerships with several premium retail channels and strong direct sales.

Two years later, Rumpl was still experiencing fast growth, but my relationship with my business partner had stalled. We were severely misaligned in our vision for the company: I wanted to grow strategically, perfecting one product before launching another; he wanted to expand into new categories, and fast. On separate occasions, our three employees approached me with concerns about his leadership. As a result, my partner and I tried to get on the same page. We had meetings, camping trips, late-night talks over a bottle of whiskey -- but it felt as though our differences had become insurmountable. For the business to continue, one of us would need to step away.

Related: 7 Businesses That Were Founded by Good Friends

I had been given advice from several mentors on how best to handle the communication, but I was extremely nervous -- I even googled "how to break up with a co-founder" and waded through endless forum threads. But what transpired that day was an amicable and effective conversation, which led to a quick end to a toxic partnership.

There were a number of steps that ultimately made the talk a success. In addition to knowing I had the support of our small team and obsessively rehearsing every word I wanted to say, I was prepared. I had consulted external legal counsel (since our company's lawyers served the entire company, which still included my co-founder), and I had selected a public space for our conversation to take place. I presented him with a severance offer but made it clear that I was willing to negotiate. We bought back a million shares of equity and offered him an advisory seat, which would serve both of us -- he did help create the brand, after all, and he deserved a chance to offer input and ideas, should he want to. I didn't sweat the small stuff -- taking away a company phone is just kicking someone when they're down. If it's not of material importance, let it go. Be kind.

After our talk, I returned to the office alone, updated the team and we did a shot of whiskey at 11 in the morning. We took a day to regroup but then quickly hit the ground running. Within a month, we were accelerating at more than two times the pace we had been before. We grew 170 percent that year. We now have a team of 18.

Related: 7 Traits You Should Look for in a Co-Founder

As for my co-founder, he's doing better, too. Rumpl's brand was built on the idea of travel and wanderlust, and that got to him -- he's been traveling throughout South America in a van, sharing his adventures on his podcast, Wheel Travel Far. Our friendship is pretty good; we don't talk a lot because he's been in Chile and Mexico and at Burning Man, but generally speaking, we're fine. We've each helped the other out in different ways, and will continue to do so. Parting with him professionally was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do, but it's made me stronger. It was the first time I really put the company in front of my personal interests -- and the results helped me realize that I always need to prioritize my business.

Want to be an BIZ Experiences Leadership Network contributor? Apply now to join.

Business Ideas

70 Small Business Ideas to Start in 2025

We put together a list of the best, most profitable small business ideas for BIZ Experiencess to pursue in 2025.

Science & Technology

OpenAI's Latest Move Is a Game Changer — Here's How Smart Solopreneurs Are Turning It Into Profit

OpenAI's latest AI tool acts like a full-time assistant, helping solopreneurs save time, find leads and grow their business without hiring.

Social Media

How To Start a Youtube Channel: Step-by-Step Guide

YouTube can be a valuable way to grow your audience. If you're ready to create content, read more about starting a business YouTube Channel.

Business Solutions

Boost Team Productivity and Security With Windows 11 Pro, Now $15 for Life

Ideal for BIZ Experiencess and small-business owners who are looking to streamline their PC setup.

Science & Technology

AI Isn't Plug-and-Play — You Need a Strategy. Here's Your Guide to Building One.

Don't just "add AI" — build a strategy. This guide helps founders avoid common pitfalls and create a step-by-step roadmap to harness real value from AI.

Starting a Business

I Built a $20 Million Company by Age 22 While Still in College. Here's How I Did It and What I Learned Along the Way.

Wealth-building in your early twenties isn't about playing it safe; it's about exploiting the one time in life when having nothing to lose gives you everything to gain.