Referral Incentives: The Gift for Giving Give clients a reason to talk you up, and you'll earn new business without lifting a finger.

By Ivan Misner

Opinions expressed by BIZ Experiences contributors are their own.

If there's one thing I've learned, it's that everyone loves referrals--and everyone loves to be recognized for giving referrals. Referral clients are easier to close, have fewer complaints, are more loyal, remain clients longer and are more trusting.

In an international survey I conducted with Robert Davis (published in our book Business by Referral), nearly a quarter of all the respondents considered incentives an effective generator of referrals. Incentives can range from simple recognition, such as a thank-you, to monetary rewards based on business generated.

It goes without saying, then, that building an incentive program is important in any successful business. So how do you do this?

I've heard of many novel ways that businesspeople reward those who send them referrals. A female consultant sends bouquets of flowers to men. A music store owner sends concert tickets. A financial planner sends change purses and money clips.

One realtor I met in Northern California told me that for almost six years, he had offered a $100 finders' fee to anyone giving him a referral that led to a listing or a sale. He said that in all that time, he had given only about a dozen finder's fees, so he decided to try another kind of incentive.

Living on a large parcel of land in prime wine country, he had begun growing grapes in his own vineyard. A thought occurred to him: Why not take the next step? He began processing the grapes and bottling his own vintage wine. After the first harvest, he had a graphic artist design a beautiful label, which he affixed to each bottle. He told all his friends that he did not sell this wine; he gave it as a gift to anyone providing him with a bona fide referral.

He gave away dozens of cases in the first three years--half the time it took him to give only one dozen cash finder's fees. Yet each bottle cost him less than $10 to produce. This special vintage wine makes him infinitely more money than giving away a handful of $100 finder's fees.

It sometimes amazes me, even now, how something as simple as a bottle of wine can be such a powerful incentive for people to give you referrals. But the explanation is quite simple: because it's special. When given as a thank-you, a bottle of wine that can't be bought can be worth 10 times what it cost to produce.

Finding the right incentive can be a big challenge for individuals who are trying to build their referral business. To make it easier on yourself, be sure to get opinions and feeback from others who have a significant interest in your success.

Most important, never underestimate the value of recognizing the people who send you business. A well-thought-out incentive program will add much to your word-of-mouth efforts.

Ivan Misner

BIZ Experiences Leadership Network® VIP

Bestselling Author

Dr. Ivan Misner is a New York Times bestselling author and co-author of the bestselling book, Networking Like a Pro (BIZ Experiences Press 2017). He is also the founder and chief visionary officer of BNI, the world's largest referral marketing and networking organization.

Want to be an BIZ Experiences Leadership Network contributor? Apply now to join.

Science & Technology

OpenAI's Latest Move Is a Game Changer — Here's How Smart Solopreneurs Are Turning It Into Profit

OpenAI's latest AI tool acts like a full-time assistant, helping solopreneurs save time, find leads and grow their business without hiring.

Business Ideas

70 Small Business Ideas to Start in 2025

We put together a list of the best, most profitable small business ideas for BIZ Experiencess to pursue in 2025.

Social Media

How To Start a Youtube Channel: Step-by-Step Guide

YouTube can be a valuable way to grow your audience. If you're ready to create content, read more about starting a business YouTube Channel.

Money & Finance

These Are the Expected Retirement Ages By Generation, From Gen Z to Boomers — and the Average Savings Anticipated. How Do Yours Compare?

Many Americans say inflation prevents them from saving enough and fear they won't reach their financial goals.

Starting a Business

I Built a $20 Million Company by Age 22 While Still in College. Here's How I Did It and What I Learned Along the Way.

Wealth-building in your early twenties isn't about playing it safe; it's about exploiting the one time in life when having nothing to lose gives you everything to gain.

Science & Technology

AI Isn't Plug-and-Play — You Need a Strategy. Here's Your Guide to Building One.

Don't just "add AI" — build a strategy. This guide helps founders avoid common pitfalls and create a step-by-step roadmap to harness real value from AI.